a Man's True Measure

We all realize that giving on any level feels really good, but internally all forms of giving are not equal. When we give with the expectation of receiving something in return, we are not really letting go of what we are giving. If we do not let go completely, then we are still clinging to whatever we gave.

When you give freely without expectation, it can come back to you in some very unpredictable ways. But remember, if you are giving simply to get something back, then you put limits on the ways that you can receive..read more

Recently I’ve been asking myself, “What is my expectation?” before I do something for another person. The answer I find most acceptable—cheesy as it may sound—is: to feel good and show love. Strangely, when I release the need to control what I get for giving, I get enough, somehow.......

Let’s face it: none of us is always kind. Human nature dictates we’ll act with one eye on what’s in it for us, at least occasionally. And I think that’s okay, as long as we make an effort whenever possible to do good for the sake of it.
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Pay for someone behind you in line at a drive up, leave $20 at the till to pay toward the next person inline at the local discount store..it feels good to be a part of the promise that..good things are out there and happen when you least expect them..their day will change..and they will pass it on to others in retelling the story..or better yet..they will be inclined to do something for someone just because.

Deuteronomy 16:17

 Every man shall give as he is able, according to the blessing of the LORD your God which He has given you.